Monday, December 1, 2008

Sometimes I dont miss it all

I wake up this morning to an im from a friend saying that her bf (married guy with three kids) texted her with one of those "we need to talk" messages.
She said shes worried about what he was going to say...
I didnt respond, it was 6 am my time.

I check my email and there is a youtube link to the Gnarles Barkley song "Going On" . At the end of the song it says- Dont Follow Me.


So. Knowing that this girl has attempted suicide in the past, I get alarmed and contact her.
Ill post the convo when I get home, but what she says is:
  • her BF wanted to talk about me
  • he was very serious about her
  • he wants her to have his baby

4:05 PM Sunday, November 30, 2008

“Confused with Love”
i got a text message from “the Married Man”
it said call you soon. we need to talk
do you think it's something bad?
i'm so stressed

“Mr. Inconsistent”
good morning

“Confused with Love”
hahahaa
it's almost midnight here

“Mr. Inconsistent”
o


“Confused with Love”
but good morning to you!

“Mr. Inconsistent”
its 7 here
how r u ?

“Confused with Love”
ahhh...frustrated

“Mr. Inconsistent”
y?

“Confused with Love”
my stupid ass dipshit boyfriend

“Mr. Inconsistent”
what was it this time?

“Confused with Love”
lol
he wanted to talk about you

“Mr. Inconsistent”
oh these men

“Confused with Love”
heh
and he wants a baby with me

“Mr. Inconsistent”
so did you guys talk?

“Confused with Love”
briefly

“Mr. Inconsistent”
..
wait...this is ‘that married man’???
''

“Confused with Love”
a son to be exact
yes,(name) the married one

“Mr. Inconsistent”
a married father of 3

“Confused with Love”
yes

“Mr. Inconsistent”
o ok. just thought id get my facts straight lol.
but m curious. What did he say?

“Confused with Love”
i asked him what he wanted from me
like where are we going type of thing
and he said a son
and i was dumbfounded
i can tell your speechless too

“Mr. Inconsistent”
lol
speechless is putting it nicely

“Confused with Love”
lol
it's not going to happen
i'd have to be an idiot

“Mr. Inconsistent”
yep…
but lol. What did he say about me?

“Confused with Love”
he wanted to ask me questions about you and me
but then he backed out
cause he knows i slept with you in the past
and i apparently he thinks about it a lot
and actually gets images in his head of us having sex
who knows

“Mr. Inconsistent”
maybe he likes the idea?..

“Confused with Love”
lol
i doubt that
but who knows maybe
so how are you?

“Mr. Inconsistent”
im ok
getting ready for wrk.

“Mr. Inconsistent”
11:27
please dont discuss my career w ur bf
or locations
or trav plans
lol

“Confused with Love”
11:27
oo i don't

“Mr. Inconsistent”
11:28
he may b angry and jealous.
lol. and in america, HE is the 1 with a gun lol.

“Confused with Love”
11:28
lol
okay
don;t worry
i don't talk about you
i try to make an effort to divert the convo when he brings you up
always

“Mr. Inconsistent”11:29
ok ttys



Now wait...I had to clarify with her, this is the one who is married with 3 children and a wife he will not leave...and he WANTS to have a baby with YOU? This guy is so fucked up he makes her get an HIV test before fucking her, sooooo that tells me he probably doesnt use protection either.

And while im not the one to judge..REALLY? Like REALLY?
I got to be a good friend, but I also have to be a realist...REALLY?

No, dont ask about me, dont talk about me. NOTHING. I dont matter. Get help. Get out of there. WTH!!!

So, what is the best way to convince her that this guy is VERY not healthy for her (other than me sacrificing myself to take his place)

2 comments:

OhMyHeart said...

um i thought i'd just point out the obvious while you both are ignoring it: HE is concerned about her PAST sex life, while HE CURRENTLY has a WIFE?

hmm. i think your friend needs to meet the wife. this is something only women can figure out with each other (if there's anything i learned from gossip girl tonight...half-joking).

Mr. Aroundtheworld said...

Interesting outlook. Ill suggest it to her. Like, yo...why dont you just meet her?...

yeah. it is such a FAIL relationship.